Showing posts with label bully seminars. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bully seminars. Show all posts

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Free Bully Prevention Training at USA Martial Arts Phoenix for Arizona Kids


Give Your Child the Gift of Confidence By Teaching Them How to Turn Bullies into Buddies and Prevent Bullying at School or Online

October is Bullying Prevention Month. USA Martial Arts Phoenix is taking a stand against bullying behavior and offering free bullying prevention training and resources to the Phoenix, Scottsdale, Paradise Valley and surrounding Arizona communities.

Founder John Nottingham is not only the owner of USA Martial Arts Phoenix but an Arizona based Security and Bodyguard company as well. USA Martial Arts Phoenix and Nottingham Sword and Shield Security Bodyguards have teamed up with the Arizona Bullying Prevention Project. Their mission is to Bullyproof the children of Arizona.

USA Martial Arts Phoenix is offering fully sponsored, free to children Bullying Prevention training the month of October. Children will learn how to handle a bully with the ARM method from Nottingham's Bully Proof Vest program.
Avoid
Resolve
Manage

In addition, USA Martial Arts Phoenix is providing a free 5 step guide on how to prevent bullying, including cyber-bullying. The Bully Prevention Guide offers unconventional advice that is often left out in other programs, like those taught in schools. According to founder and 6th Degree Master Black Belt John Nottingham,
"Our program offers practical advice for bullying prevention up to and including physical intervention. Most bullying programs do not address physical attacks - we do. We teach children how to protect themselves with practical and simple steps so they can escape to safety."

Parents, teachers or children can access the free guide by visiting the USA Martial Arts Phoenix Academy at Tatum and Greenway or by going to the website at http://USA-MartialArts.com and providing an email address.

Classes are held at USA Martial Arts Phoenix at Tatum and Greenway. Call to register for your child's free Bullying Prevention training. Call or email now - space is limited.

USA Martial Arts Phoenix Telephone 602-896-8721
USA Martial Arts Phoenix email info@usa-martialarts.com

Sponsored in part by: Kids Love Martial Arts Phoenix!

Notes:
o The Arizona Bullying Prevention Project provides evidence-based life skills training incorporating advanced threat assessment tools for the prevention of bullying behavior.

o The Bully Solutions Project is a private initiative sponsored by a collaborative effort from USA Martial Arts Phoenix and Nottingham Sword & Shield Security Bodyguards

o 2011 marks the 26th Year John Nottingham has taught Bullying Prevention to children of his community.

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Arizona Bullying Prevention Project offers Free Workshops to Children, Parents and Teachers

Free Bullying Prevention Training for Arizona


BullyProofingArizona.blogspot.com is the blog dedicated to the subject of bullying in Arizona. Parents, teachers and children can find information, statistics and resources to arm them with knowledge and techniques to successfully deal with bullying. 
http://bullyproofingarizona.blogspot.com/

Bully Proof Vest - Bully Solutions Workshop


Free Bully / Victim Proofing workshop every Wednesday for this entire month of March at USA Martial Arts Phoenix at Tatum & Greenway in Phoenix/Scottsdale/PV at 5pm on Wednesday nights. To register, simply email info@usa-martialarts.com or call 602-896-8721. It's fully sponsored by Nottingham Sword & Shield Security/ScottdsdaleBodyguard.com and USA Martial Arts Phoenix.


INFO:
The Arizona Bullying Intervention Initiative | The Arizona Bully Prevention Project - Peaceful, Positive Persuasion | Encouraging Respect, a "Hero Culture" and Protector Mindset Prompted by Empathy

A Program Developed by Professional Protectors with research from Olweus, Dr. George Thompson "Verbal Judo", Dr. Terence Webster-Doyle, Israel (Izzy) C. Kalman, MS, Gavin de Becker, and professional bodyguards.

The Arizona Bullying Prevention Project provides evidence-based life skills training incorporating advanced threat assessment tools, evacuation techniques, physical intervention strategies, and tactical communication in an encouraging and entertaining format.


Bully-Proof Vest Program - The Only Bullying Prevention Program Developed by Protection Professionals.  http://bullyproofingarizona.blogspot.com/

Attention Arizona Parents:
Your child may be a target for bullying but they do not have to be a victim.  Unlike other programs promoting "anti-bully" themes in which children are labeled weak self pitying "victims", our program promotes individual responsibility, "hero culture", empowerment and learning skills that can help a child for life. Plus we teach it in a fun, memorable manner.  There is hope!

-  Our three pronged Bullying Intervention approach treats the targeted child of bullying, the bullying behavior as well as the social environment enabling bullying.

-  Our 5 step How to Turn a Bully into a Buddy process encourages strong social skills, confidence building and uses common sense before self defense. Unlike other programs, we'll actually show your child simple and effective "last resort" defensive techniques in case they are physically attacked.

-  Children enjoy the exciting martial arts format and learn that they can avoid a fight and still walk away with dignity like a Black Belt.

-  Children learn the 3 Shields Strategy and "Bullying Word Blocks" from Verbal Judo, using humor, fear management skills.

-  Other children learn the value of being a "Hallway Hero" and "Protector Pal"

-  This AZ Bullying Prevention Program avoids the political labeling and the failing mindset of "BAD BULLY", "HELPLESS VICTIM" and reveals the danger posed to children in having politically motivated "zero tolerance" policies that lack common sense. The research will shock you.

- Unlike other Bully programs, this one is first designed to protect children, rather than first protect the schools and administrators from legal liability (although it will do that too).

- Prevents blame shifting from children, parents, teachers and school administration by promoting responsibility, communication, mutual respect and common sense problem solving.

- Gives hurting people the help, compassion and resources they need to change it.

For more information contact:


Source: http://www.olweus.org/public/bullying.page



What is Bullying?


Dan Olweus, creator of the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program, provides us with this commonly accepted definition for bullying in his book, Bullying at School: What We Know and What We Can Do:


"A person is bullied when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons, and he or she has difficulty defending himself or herself."


This definition includes three important components:


1. Bullying is aggressive behavior that involves unwanted, negative actions.

2. Bullying involves a pattern of behavior repeated over time.

3. Bullying involves an imbalance of power or strength.


Types of Bullying


Bullying can take on many forms. As part of the Olweus Bullying Questionnaire, students are asked if they have been bullied in any of these nine ways:


1. Verbal bullying including derogatory comments and bad names

2. Bullying through social exclusion or isolation

3. Physical bullying such as hitting, kicking, shoving, and spitting

4. Bullying through lies and false rumors

5. Having money or other things taken or damaged by students who bully

6. Being threatened or being forced to do things by students who bully

7. Racial bullying

8. Sexual bullying

9. Cyber bullying (via cell phone or Internet) Learn more


Why Students Bully


Information about bullying suggests that there are three interrelated reasons why students bully.


1. Students who bully have strong needs for power and (negative) dominance.

2. Students who bully find satisfaction in causing injury and suffering to other

students.

3. Students who bully are often rewarded in some way for their behavior with

material or psychological rewards.


Impact of Bullying


A single student who bullies can have a wide-ranging impact on the students they bully, students who observe bullying, and the overall climate of the school and community.


Students Who are Bullied - Students deserve to feel safe at school. But when they experience bullying, these types of effects can last long into their future:
  • Depression 
  • Low self-esteem 
  • Health problems 
  • Poor grades 
  • Suicidal thoughts 


Students Who Bully Others - Students who intentionally bully others should be held accountable for their actions. Those who bully their peers are also more likely than those students who do not bully others to *:
  • Get into frequent fights 
  • Steal and vandalize property 
  • Drink alcohol and smoke 
  • Report poor grades 
  • Perceive a negative climate at school 
  • Carry a weapon 


* Not all students who bully others have obvious behavior problems or are engaged in rule-breaking activities, however. Some of them are highly skilled socially and good at ingratiating themselves with their teacher and other adults. This is true of some boys who bully but is perhaps even more common among bullying girls. For this reason it is often difficult for adults to discover or even imagine that these students engage in bullying behavior.


Observers of Bullying - Students who see bullying happen also may feel that they are in an unsafe environment. Effects may include feeling:
  • Fearful 
  • Powerless to act 
  • Guilty for not acting 
  • Tempted to participate 


Schools with Bullying Issues - When bullying continues and a school does not take action, the entire school climate can be affected in the following ways:
  • The school develops an environment of fear and disrespect 
  • Students have difficulty learning 
  • Students feel insecure 
  • Students dislike school 
  • Students perceive that teachers and staff have little control and don't care about them 


Find out how the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program addresses the issues surrounding bullying and provides Benefits for Schools and Benefits for Other Institutions.


Bullying is a Serious Issue


Bullying may vary greatly between schools and school districts, but it is very prevalent:
Statistics show that 23 percent of students in grades 4-6 had been bullied "several times" or more; 20 percent had bullied others (1998 study of 6,500 students in rural South Carolina)
Statistics show that 17 percent of students in grades 6-10 reported having been bullied "sometimes" or more, with 8 percent being bullied once a week. 19 percent said they had been a bully to others "sometimes" or more. (2001 study of 15,000 U.S. students)


The Bullying Circle

Nearly one in five students in an average classroom is experiencing bullying in some way. The rest of the students, called bystanders, are also affected by the bullying.1


The Olweus Bullying Prevention Program describes students involved or witnessing a bullying situation as having roles in the Bullying Circle2:





1C. Salmivalli, K. Lagerspetz, K. Björkqvist, K. Osterman, and A. Kaukiainen, "Bullying as a Group Process: Participant Roles and Their Relations to Social Status within the Group," Aggressive Behavior 22 (1996): 1-15.


2Dan Olweus, "Peer Harassment: A Critical Analysis and Some Important Issues," in Peer Harassment in School, ed. J. Juvonen and S. Graham (New York: Guilford Publications, 2001): 3-20.


http://www.olweus.org/public/bullying.page


EVIDENCE OF EFFECTIVENESS
Research Basis for the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program
  • The first evaluation of the program took place in the early-to-mid 1980s and involved approximately 2,500 children in grades 4-7 from 42 elementary and junior high schools in Bergen, Norway (equivalent to grades 5-8 in the U.S.). Using a quasi-experimental (age-cohorts) design, Olweus (1991; Olweus, Limber, & Mihalic, 1999) found:
    • substantial reductions (50% or more for most comparisons by students’ age and grade) in self-reported bullying and bully victimization.
    • significant reductions in self-reported vandalism, fighting, theft, alcohol use, and truancy.
    • significant improvements in the social climate of the classroom (as reflected in students’ reports of increased satisfaction with school life and school work, improved order and discipline at school, and more positive social relationships)
    • a dosage-response relationship at the classroom level, such that those classrooms that implemented essential components of the program saw greater reductions in bully/victim problems.
  • The New Bergen Project Against Bullying took place between 1997 and 1998 and involved 3,200 students in grades 5-7 and 9 from 14 intervention and 16 comparison schools in Bergen, Norway. Olweus and colleagues (Olweus, 2004; Olweus et al., 1999) found:
    • Reductions in the implementation schools of bully/victim problems of 21%-38%.
    • No significant changes in comparison schools in reports of being bullied and a 35% increase in the level of bullying other students
  • The Oslo Project Against Bullying (which began in 1999) involved 2,300 students in grades 5-7 and 9. Within one year, among 5-7th graders, Olweus (Olweus, 2004) found:
    • Reductions in self-reports of bully victimization of 42% (33% for girls and 48% for boys)
    • Reductions in self-reported bullying others of 52% (64% for girls and 45% for boys)
  • The first systematic evaluation of the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program in the United States (Limber et al., 2004) was conducted in the mid-1990s, involving 18 middle schools in South Carolina. After one year of implementation, researchers observed:
    • Large, significant decreases in boys’ and girls’ reports of bullying others
    • Large, significant decreases in boys’ reports of being bullied and in boys’ reports of social isolation.
  • An evaluation of the Olweus program in 12 elementary schools in the Philadelphia area (Black, 2003) revealed that among those schools that had implemented the program with at least moderate fidelity:
    • There were significant reductions in self-reported bullying and victimization
    • There were significant decreases in adults’ observations of bullying (in the cafeteria and on the playground)
References:
Black, S. (2003). An ongoing evaluation of the bullying prevention program in Philadelphia schools: Student survey and student observation data. Paper presented at Centers for Disease Control’s Safety in Numbers Conference, Atlanta, GA.
Limber, S. P. (2004b). Implementation of the Olweus Bullying Prevention Program: Lessons Learned from the Field. In D. Espelage & S. Swearer (Eds.) Bullying in American Schools: A Social-Ecological Perspective on Prevention and Intervention (pp. 351-363). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum.
Olweus, D. (1991). Bully/victim problems among schoolchildren: Basic facts and effects of a school based intervention program. In D. J. Pepler & K. H. Rubin (Eds.), The development and treatment of childhood aggression (pp. 411-448). Hillsdale, NJ: Erlbaum.
Olweus, D. (1993). Bullying at school: What we know and what we can do. Cambridge: Blackwell.
Olweus, D. (2004). The Olweus Bullying Prevention Programme: Design and implementation issues and a new national initiative in Norway. In P. K. Smith, D. Pepler, & K. Rigby (Eds.),Bullying in schools: How successful can interventions be? (pp. 13-36). Cambridge, UK: Cambridge University Press.
Olweus, D., Limber, S. P., & Mihalic, S. (1999). The Bullying Prevention Program: Blueprints for Violence Prevention, Vol. 10. Center for the Study and Prevention of Violence: Boulder, CO.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Anti-Bullying Training Workshops, Bully Prevention Seminars, Bully Help School Talks

Bully Prevention Bully Training Anti-Bullying Seminars How To Stop a Bully How To Deal With A Bully John Nottingham's Bully Proof Vest Program Phoenix Arizona USA School Assembly Speaker Bully Prevention Speaker Arizona

Bullying Prevention Training Workshops & Advice
Proud Partners in Education | Training The Teacher | Train The Trainer | Phoenix AZ
AZ Bullying Prevention Project: http://bullyproofingarizona.blogspot.com/
Advanced Threat Assessment, Conflict Management, Tactical Communication (Verbal Judo), Bodyguard Strategies combined with the Time Tested Peaceful Wisdom of Martial Arts Redirection and Inner Strength that Stops Bullying Behavior



ATTENTION: PARENTS, (teachers/leaders),


I HAVE A CONFESSION...
First I have a confession. This really isn't ANTI-Bullying information. Because I don't really believe in Anti-much of anything, especially if it is Anti-children. "Anti"stuff tends not to focus on solutions. Bullying is a behavior - not a label we should be using to vilify a child. Instead this is a pro-children organization that provides bullying behavior and conflict resolution training to children.
Bullies | Bullying | Bystanders | Bullying Myths

Discover The Secrets To Stopping The School or Playground Bully From Stealing Your Child's Confidence and Self-Esteem Forever

These days you will find there is a lot of advice on how to handle a bully. Unfortunately, much of it is unqualified advice from people who have little, or worse, NO EXPERIENCE in successfully managing bullying behavior.

  • Many of the "academics" offering bully programs were bullied themselves - and give kids impractical advice that can lead to your child getting beat up! (You may recognize the signs of these guys through their pushing infective and potentially dangerous policies like the politically motivated "zero tolerance".)
"Just Ignore It." "Just Walk Away." Myths That Cause More Problems
  • Some programs offer "ignore it" and "just walk away" advice, which often sets a child up to just be a welcome target and get picked on by the next bully, then the next and so on. If done incorrectly, it can give implied permission to a bully to continue picking on your child. This can also send an unintended message to your child. Why? Because it can be a set up for years of torment and anguish because the child fails to learn the social and safety skills to handle conflict.
  • Some teachers tend to over-talk it and were themselves targets of bullying and STILL lack the practical skills of protection. Many methods simply lack common sense and usually won't work in the real world. I've dealt with thousands of kids over the years and they confirm this again and again.
  • Other advocates are well intentioned parents of bullied children now advocating the demonizing of the bully (who is somebodies child) ie "Anti-Bully training" . Newsflash...Bullying is a BEHAVIOR - NOT A PERSON. Did you know that most children who are targets of bullying often become bullies? It could be your child. That's why bully solutions requires a more responsible, intelligent and practical approach.
  • Does Your Child Have a Bully Proof Vest? We can teach them.
    FACT: A parent or teacher simply can't be there to protect a child every second of their lives.
    http://bullyproofingarizona.blogspot.com/
    That's why I started the Arizona Bullying Intervention Initiative - The Phoenix Bully Prevention Project. Our goal is to bully and victim proof Arizona Children.
    The John Nottingham 5 Step Bully Management Method teaches common sense before self defense and how to defeat a bully without fighting or violence. Using humor and verbal judo "word blocks" kids learn the warning signs and how to thwart bullying behavior. They often learn to turn a bully into a buddy with our Bully Proof Vest program! But if push comes to shove, children need to know that nobody has the right to hurt them and we give them responsible and clever tools to protect themselves with appropriate force and escaping with dignity. They won't teach you that in other programs.
    The Ugly Truth Nobody Is Telling You, The Parent

    Did you know that children report that they are being beaten, tormented, abused and harassed by bullies and it continues day after day because they are afraid THEY will get into trouble or suspended?
    • Children are told by the bully that if they tell, they will get beat up.
    • Kids are told by teachers and administrations that they will get in trouble if they are in a "fight".
    • Children are often ashamed to tell parents or friends because it is embarrassing, makes them feel weaker or it causes such a fuss. Remember what it felt like to be a kid?
    • FACT: Bullying is one of the leading causes of absenteeism and harms scholastic performance
    Where do children turn in this crazy system that lacks common sense?? We have the answers.

    The truth is that most of the Anti-Bully programs out there are just parroting the popular bully information but have no real life experience implementing successful bully behavior management programs. While they are usually well intentioned - they are, in our experience, giving inaccurate and potentially dangerous advice that is NOT in the best interest of your child. Parents need an intelligent alternative "peacemaker" approach - NOT being a bigger bully or a push over pansy like so many armchair quarterbacks advocate.

    Did you know that most of the BULLY EDUCATION programs out there are designed around limiting schools, administrators and institutions liability rather than protecting the safety and self esteem of your child?
    How is my bully proof vest program different?
    I'm so glad you asked. It starts with my background. My name is John Nottingham and I've been teaching people for over 23 years how to effectively protect themselves in the real world. From training the military for combat, law enforcement for the street, bodyguards protecting celebrities to thousands of children successfully managing bullies, I have taught a great number of people in my chain of USA Martial Arts schools, community talks as a public speaker, and owner of a bodyguard security training company. It has been my lifelong professional obsession and it has taken me all over the world to learn what I can share with you.

    Our Bully Solutions "Bully Proof Vest" Program is made to work in the real world. Like it or not, bullies exist in the playground, at schools and in the workplace so we have to equip children with skills to deal with bulies. Ignoring bullies or denying bullying only causes it to escalate and get worse. Now parents have proven effective bully solutions.

    A Little Background and Personal Experience & Why You Should Here What I Have To Say About Bullying
    I was the target of bullying when I was in school (as well as several other stages of my life). I know the pain and lasting trauma it can cause. Fortunately, I got involved in Martial Arts at an early age and it changed my life forever. The life lessons I learned there not only helped me COMPLETELY DEFEAT MY BULLIES WITHOUT FIGHTING, but gave me the tools to become an Eagle Scout and overcome asthma (you can read about it in a Taekwondo Times Magazine article here).
    "Wax On Wax Off?" -Mr. Miyagi, The Karate Kid movie
    I know what your thinking... 98lb weakling joins martial arts, becomes black belt and learns to beat up bully - but thats not what happend at all (this is real life-not the movies). I learned to handle my bully long before I earned Black Belt - you'll see that my bully solution techniques can be put to use the very first day (and has been by thousands of children just like yours). You see, it's not about the kicks, punches and blocks - it is a systematic method developed for responsibly handling bully behavior -usually without ever getting physical.

    It's True- No Bull - Read on...
    I went from having average to poor grades as a child to earning academic honors. But it didn't stop there as I went on to serve in an Army Airborne Special Forces Unit in a support detachment and graduate the US Army Intelligence School. I earned numerous Black Belts and Instructorships in 4 styles and had a 6th Degree Master Black Belt rank bestowed on me. We even have a foundation for prevention and treatment of child abuse, public awareness and education.

    Nobody Else Has That Unique Background and Set of Skills
    I don't say those things to impress you with my credentials. I share it to impress upon you that this program really is different and it really works due to the very unique experience and education I have had in my life. I learned how to incorporate the wisdom of martial arts peace process, the strategy used by military intelligence (and the lessons history teaches on the subject), then I trained in bodyguard schools, then worked with school teachers, psychologists and some of the greatest minds in the world on the subject (one such mind is my teacher Gavin de Becker - I recommend you read his best selling book The Gift of Fear). Gavin de Becker is a three time Presidential appointee and one of the greatest minds on situations that could lead to violence.

    "John Nottingham's Defeating the Bully Without Fighting Bully Proof Vest Works Like Magic"

    My experience afforded me a unique opportunity to bring together some amazingly effective tools and skills to handle conflict in different ways. The result is a 3 pronged treatment 5 step process for DEFEATING A BULLY WITHOUT FIGHTING and, in general, a CONFLICT AVOIDANCE method that works like magic. (You won't see these same methods in other programs, unless they got them from us.)
    Are Signs Like These Really The Answer?

    A dirty little secret...
    Nearly all bully situations can be prevented, thwarted and diffused if your child knows what early warning signs to look for and what to do at the right time. However, not all bully situations can be stopped before they get physically abusive. We train children for that too. You won't hear that in most bully training programs!

    Can We Really Teach You How To Quickly and Effectively Deal With Bullies?
    Yes we can, just as we have thousands of children just like yours. But wait... just because I have great ideas and bully avoidance program that works doesn't necessarily mean I can teach it. That's where my experience as an educator comes in. I've been teaching martial arts since I was a teenager, was paid to brief Officers and high ranking brass in the military, and my staff and I have taught over 10,000 men, women and children. My hand-picked team and I have the ability to articulate our Bully Solution message in a way that makes it non-intimidating, rewarding, and fun.

    We hope to work with you and share our experience in how to resolve conflict peacefully and defeat a bully without fighting.

    Respectfully,

    John D. Notingham
    Founder The Arizona Bullying Prevention Initiative
    USA Martial Arts | Nottingham Sword & Shield Security
    Phoenix | Scottsdale Arizona USA
    http://USA-MartialArts.com
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    How To Deal With A Bully - Defeat The Bully Without Fighting & Turn Bullies Into Buddies


    ALL PHOENIX PARENTS-

    A New class being offered to the community totally FREE by The Arizona Bullying Intervention Initiative - The AZ Bullying Prevention Project and USA Martial Arts in Phoenix AZ can save your child from the lifelong affects of bullying. Bullying has and will continue to erode the self esteem of millions of young victims.. Bullying is linked by the CDC to isolation, drug abuse, school violence and suicide. But, YOUR child doesn't have to be just another statistic! It’s tough for both Parents and Teachers to deal with bullying and most kids are forced to deal with it on their own. The problem is they've not been trained!

    Does Your Child Have A Bully Proof Vest?

    Do you remember seeing kids get bullied?
    Did it happen to you when you were a kid? How did it make you feel?
    Do you remember the names of the bullies when you were a kid? This Special FREE Class Will Reveal...
    • How To Easily Spot and Read The Bully.
    • How To Defeat The Bully WITHOUT Violence.
    • The Secret Word That Always Stops The Bully In His Tracks
    • The Little Known Strategies For Dealing With Mental Bullying
    • How To Deal With a Bully - In The Real World!
    • How To Put On Your Bully Proof Vest!
    • Much Much More

    Date: Every Wednesday in March
    Time: 5pm - must call or email for appointment
    At: USA Martial Arts Phoenix in cooperation with Nottingham Sword & Shield Security
    (4731 E. Greenway Rd Suite9 Phoenix, Arizona 85032)

    This Class is held FREE at designated times for all Phoenix AZ Children, But Space is Limited! You Must Register in Advance!

    For a fee: seminars, appointments, off site seminars, school talks and training Call: (602) 896-8721 or visit http://USA-MartialArts.com to Reserve Your Space Now! Don’t Wait! Your Child’s Self-Esteem is Too Valuable!